A fun & real blog to follow

My goal with this blog is to bring together a community of people who actually Do Give A Fuck. There is so much space in our lives where our interests get overshadowed, downplayed, or just blatantly dismissed. This blog is meant to combat that.

I made this blog with the hopes of finding just the right space to mix media and honesty, beauty and reality, life experiences and shallowness and just straight up Kpop on occasion (threw you there didn’t I?).

I want a place where I can reflect REAL LIFE. Even if it isn’t always pretty, or consistent, when it’s a little too honest about being fake, and when it is just straight up obsessive and self indulgent. I wanted a place where things didn’t always have to be watered down or sugar coated, people don’t have to get it right all time, and opinions don’t have to fit into boxes.

It’s crazy to me that a character in a book, a film, a tv show, or play can be raw and honest, inconsistent and vulgar, and people can and are willing to understand them. But a person on a blog, on Youtube, on Facebook, or on Instagram cannot. Hopefully my blog breaks that mold and that standard.

This blog will sometimes be light and sometimes be deep. Just like life. It will sometimes be about the money and hustle, and sometimes be about the little white lies that get us through.  It will have life, because I have life and I am not manufactured or a brand, I am a person.

I hope for this to be a space to let myself shine without timidness, and to be a safe place for you to relate & allow for your guilty pleasures without shame. I’m here to talk about things the way I see and experienced them.

Real life advice from a real life girlie, right or wrong, it’s honest and (hopefully…..usually…) self reflective.

K byyyyyyye,



HyunA(현아) _ BABE(베베) Dance Cover

HyunA(현아) _ BABE(베베) Dance Cover – Bomi Adozie


Cleaning Out & Organizing My Closet!

Yellow! When it comes to moving up & moving on, there’s nothing like a fresh closet to make you feel like you can achieve ALL of the things. Or maybe thats just me. Since I now have the whole closet to myself, I felt there was definitely a much better way to utilize it than one half clothes, the other half garbage. I also had a huge pile of clothes I had been putting off washing  (think 6+ loads) so this was the perfect opportunity to clean, cleanse and refresh. Ergo a whole day of laundry and closet organization.

Here’s the method I implemented, and that I have managed to stick to.

1. Hangers!

I find using two types of hangers is most helpful to me. Plastic & velvet! Velvet is perfect for the awkward clothes that tend to slide off of your hangers, and plastic has the perfect little dips made for your “strappy” wear. Online is the best way to get these hangers in bulk, & if not online check out Home Goods, Marshalls, TJ Maxx, etc if you’re looking for a deal.

These are velvet ones on Amazon I would recommend:


2.  Utilize your dresser!

I keep my dresser in my closet atm. This allows me to have ample space in the rest of my room. But because of this, I don’t like to keep anything fancy in it. I like to think of my dresser as containing all the things I wear around my house.

For example.

Drawer 1: All socks. That’s literally it. Socks. I don’t care about wearing matching pairs so I have one million socks, most without a match, all in this drawer.

Drawer 2: Bras, bandeaus, underwear, bathing suits.

Drawers 3 & 4: Pajamas & work out clothes (I.e lounge wear)

Drawer 5: Comfy sweaters

3.  Top shelf of closet!

The top of my closet was once where I kept all of the things that were supposed to be in my dresser. Now, I just use it for shoes. One of the token rules for organization is to not have the same item in more than one place!This is something I’m working on, but feel pretty accomplished in doing this time around. My closet is very long so (almost) all of my shoes can fit up here. I also have a coat hanger and shoe bench in my living room, so the ones worn most often have a second home out there. 

4. Closet floor!

NOTHING! This was one of the reasons I think my closet felt so cluttered before hand. I literally had to duck below my clothes to get to my shoes, and then when things fell off the hanger it was just a mess because everything was tangled and I always felt a strong “why bother” attitude about fixing it, because it looked messy either way. A clean closet floor definitely helps with piece of mind, as well as gives good incentive to pick things up once they fall down.

5.  Make an order & stick to it!

Now I guess I have a strange way of organizing my closet. Strange as in, it probably only looks organized to me. Essentially, I prefer to order my closet into categories.  I.e Crop Tops, Shirts, Long Sleeves, Sweaters, Over Shirts, Jackets, Dresses, etc. But within these categories I like to order my clothing from thinnest to thickest as well as by the length of the sleeve of the item. Some people might just opt for color coordination, but I find when I am looking for clothes I don’t think “What color do I wanna wear today?” I’m more likely to think “What’s the weather like?” or “Which slutty crop top will go best with this skirt?” or ” I feel fat I want something slouchy”. So in organizing in the category manner, I usually just go to a specific section of my closet & then can find what I am looking for within that section that meets my needs.

It works for me, so maybe it’s worth a try!

Anyways, you can watch me clean my closet in entirety in the video below (it’s time lapsed) :

k byeeeeee!

OOTD – All black – Dinner –

So David & I have been trying to do a better job of getting out of the house and out on the town. (Okay, I’ve been getting antsy sitting in the house and have been forcing David to take me out and about, but you know, same difference). Anyways, we found this cute little restaurant a couple (like 5 actually….) blocks from our house that is always easy to convince in him to go to when I’m feeling bored. So that’s where we headed, and this is what I wore. The end.

ootd - outfit of the day
Top- is from idk where but it was not expensive
ootd all black pants
Pants are from Garage
ootd daytime heels
Heels are from db shoes – (what what)
all black ootd - summer
This is what it look like on. stole the belt from David… 90’s nostalgia is real
ootd makeup wing liner
Went for a winged liner since there was no color in my outfit


k byeeeeee